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  1. Dirty Pleasures

    Dirty Pleasures Porn Surfer

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    You said having several guys use you is what gets your motor running.
    Have you ever submitted and given yourself over to him, so he can use you for his needs?
     
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  2. Niceguy49

    Niceguy49 Porn Star

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    I solved that dilemma by masturbating and having sex with the same sex for the release. I rationalized my behavior by not having sex (and probably feelings) with the opposite sex. I am not sure women have sex with other women just for the release like guys.
     
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  3. notdescriptive

    notdescriptive motorcyclist

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    Not sure what a 'normal' sex drive is. In our house once a day is normal. You say your husband's sex drive is twice a week, and normal.
    I'm thinking most men do not shut down when a woman comes on to them for sex, it's a point of pride. How does he respond when propositioned?
     
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  4. Ginger_slutty

    Ginger_slutty Happy Harlot

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    discuss with him.... see if he is interested in an open relationship... he might get turned on hearing about your adventures...
     
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  5. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    First I feel your pain and have for many years in an otherwise happy marriage, so the suggestions of divorce or separation is shortsighted! No others have felt the exact pain in quite the same way despite the similarities and to throw away everything for one thing is absurd. Cheating is by it's virtue a situation that will always be present and that you will be accused of "not loving" the person your with by those who haven't had to suffer in the same way. An open marriage/relationship as well is only as effective as the sum total of the need for sex of both of you which in this situation doesn't work if both of you are not "in need" of participating mutually.

    Sex drives differ and are not a direct reflection of the love we have for our spouse in any way, it's a long hard road to finding a compromise that both satisfies you of the upper drive and doesn't alienate his right to not want sex so much. My wife allowed me leverage that led me down the path of ten years of on again, off again mistresses and lovers that no one would quite understand I'd come to regret of my wife's choice. In my case it was through those indiscretions that opened up the floodgates of serious discussions on stopping them and both of us acknowledge our responsibility in those years.

    Bottom line if you love them and they love you there's a long road ahead of painstaking conversations that must be had and a chance for many mistakes along the way before you get there. Just remember that his low sex drive and your high sex drive are not an indication of the love you share, they are in fact who we are as people and as such must be negotiated or risk affecting our outcome together!

    P.S. Not even those who have had sex before marriage will ever know how it will change as the years progress and it will despite the illusion of infatuation in the beginning that everyone experiences!
     
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      I have said this very thing for years. And I am still alone and hate it,
      I do not, will not cheat in my relationships. Nor will I ever sleep with another man's woman.
      Without his permission or presence. It isn't cheating if you have permission.
       
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  6. Parkerkenneth699

    Parkerkenneth699 Porn Surfer

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    Dear God tell my husband that!!
     
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  7. NCfan

    NCfan Porn Star

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    Trying to figure out your situation here. You have the female symbol, mentioned a husband, but list yourself as LGBT. Is there some mismatch that he wasn't aware of before marriage? Or some change? Or am I missing something?
     
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